If You Could See What I See
As Grand LEO, I often get the privilege of addressing members of the craft, and attempting to inspire thought and reflection. It is a labor of love. It is also true that I do not often get the opportunity to simply enjoy the sidelines, and take-in and observe our work. Recently, I was given the honor of sitting next to the presiding master in one of our apprentice degrees, and I was inspired to address new audiences – our candidates, those who are thinking about joining our craft, and curious family members. That said, maybe this will also spark some memories and reflection of those of us who have already taken these steps that echo throughout time.
A friend and mentor of mine once said something along the lines of: Masonry fee
ls unique because, when the doors close, the outside world fades away, and members experience a tradition that is both ancient and consistent. Although I love this message, at face value this viewpoint might be a bit idealistic and romantic. That said, while we know that there are differences from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, and our degrees have seen changes over time, the basic building blocks remain consistent. The way we conduct ourselves today and the lessons we are taught through our symbols and allegories are the same as what was experienced and learned by General Washington, Benjamin Franklin, and Lafayette … even if the delivery has mutated a bit with time.
By the time I petitioned a lodge, my closest male relatives with ties to Freemasonry had already passed away. Regrettably, I did not learn of their affiliation until it was too late—perhaps a byproduct of an earlier era marked not so much by secrecy as by selectiveness and perhaps built-in testing of a man’s resolve. While adapting our approach may be a necessary evolution to remain relevant in today’s more connected world, I remain uncertain as to whether these changes will ultimately yield the outcomes we hope and anticipate. There is something to be said about tenacity and a longer investment – but the path of proficiency, trials, and excellence is still available to those who truly seek it, so I digress…
When my experience started, I remember thinking, “I do not know these men personally, but I know the type of men that they are.” I was nervous, but I did not fear danger. I knew that there would be work that I would need to do, and I would likely need to prove my understanding as I progressed through the degrees. I did not want to disappoint or let these men down. For our candidates, or those thinking about joining us in our work, I’ll stop here to avoid ruining your experience.
The point that I wish to make is that what I knew about Freemasonry was based on memories of good men, popular culture, and interactions with Masons that I had met as a non-initiated person. I guess what they say is true: be mindful of our actions because we never know who we might inspire with them, and we never know who might be watching. If you are just starting to take your first steps, I hope you reflect on and understand the weight of the steps you are about to take.
As I sat and watched the apprentice degree unfold, I remember having another thought, “In the same way I can, I wish you could see the caliber of men that you are surrounded with. Many of my favorite people are here in this room with you.”
This thought brought a smile to my face, and I was brought back full circle to my initiation and remembering, “I may not know these men, but I know the type of men that they are.” In a way, I found myself yearning for the newness of the adventure and opportunity that would await me; re-discovering the competence and compassion that each of these men consistently demonstrate in their own way. I also found myself looking forward to the promise of friendships and new adventures offered by these new Brothers yet to be discovered by me, and our craft. They are a blessing.
After the degree, I shared a few words that concluded with, “Thank you for the honor of being here on your special night, and having the opportunity to witness this degree.” It may seem odd to another Mason that I would phrase it in this way as a member, but hopefully now you know why I said it. Hopefully others find themselves reminiscing of when they were in your spot, and they journey they have taken since. I believe that is the path to our greatest treasures.
Until our paths next cross, travel well.
Fraternally,
Brad Phelps
Grand LEO